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RESOLVING DIVORCE

One method of resolving divorce matters that has developed over time and has become more and more popular is called Collaborative Divorce. In Collaborative Divorce proceedings, spouses agree that they are NOT going to litigate, that they are NOT going to go to court, that they are NOT going to leave their decisions and matters that are most important in their lives to the discretion of a judge, but that they are going to decide those issues for THEMSELVES. With the help of trained professionals (attorneys, therapists, child specialists, financial specialists, divorce coaches), divorcing spouses can WORK TOGETHER to decide upon those matters most important in the lives of their families.

WORKING TOGETHER FOR A RESOLUTION

Spouses who resolve their disputes collaboratively report a much greater sense of satisfaction in having resolved their matters without court intervention. They may even have saved money, too.

In addition to having been designated by the State of North Carolina as a Family Law Specialist since 1990, Alan has been trained as a Collaborative Divorce Attorney. Call Alan to learn whether a Collaborative Divorce process is right for you.

Collaborative Law

N.C.G.S.§ 50-70 to 80. Article 4. Collaborative Law Proceedings.

On the right are the NC Civil Contempt laws per Article 2.

How Collaborative Divorce Gives You Control Over the Outcome

When you work collaboratively with your spouse, you gain control over the outcome of your family court case. This approach can benefit you and your children. No one knows your children better than you and the other parent. By keeping your child’s interests at the center of your decision-making, you lay the grounds for effective and conflict-free co-parenting.

When parents cannot come to an agreement over the terms of a divorce, the courts have to step in to make critical decisions. Judges follow guidelines that may or may not take into account the unique circumstances of your family.

A collaborative approach to divorce can also be far less stressful and costly than a contested divorce. When emotions replace national decision-making, a divorce can be delayed and mired in unnecessary court hearings.

Key Differences Between Collaborative Divorce and Traditional Litigation

Collaborative divorce allows both parties to work toward a resolution without the delays and hostility often seen in litigation. By committing to open discussions and negotiation, couples can address complex issues such as property division, child custody, and financial support in a way that prioritizes fairness.

This process fosters a cooperative environment where both spouses have a say in the outcome rather than relying on a judge to make life-altering decisions. Additionally, collaborative divorce often results in more sustainable agreements, reducing the likelihood of future disputes and the need for court modifications.

The courts do not have to become involved in the terms of your divorce when you take a collaborative approach to resolving areas of disagreement. Traditional litigation puts decision-making power in the hands of a judge who is not familiar with the particulars of your domestic life and goals as parents.

Potentially Faster and Less Costly

Compared to traditional litigation, collaborative divorce is often faster and less costly. In many cases, a collaborative approach to divorce allows you to finalize your divorce soon after the state’s waiting period has passed.

Both collaborative divorce and traditional litigation involve legal representation for both parties. A collaborative approach creates a less combative approach to resolving a divorce. The benefits of the approach include a faster divorce, lower court costs, and less animosity following the dissolution of the marriage.

Is Collaborative Divorce Right for Your Situation?

Even if you believe your spouse will not be cooperative, beginning a divorce with a collaborative mindset can set your divorce on the optimal footing. The ideal setting for a collaborative divorce is one where both parties are willing to communicate openly and engage in good-faith negotiations.

A collaborative divorce may not be ideal for high-conflict cases. The approach is ideal for cases where both parties have an interest in finalizing the divorce sooner rather than later so they can move on with their respective lives.

Collaborative divorce may also be ideal for spouses who do not wish to spend considerable sums on court and legal fees. A collaborative divorce can create a clear path toward finalizing a divorce. For spouses who are ready to move on with their lives, this approach offers significant benefits.

FAQs

    Q: What Is the Downside of Collaborative Divorce?

    A: Collaborative divorce only works when both parties are willing to work in good faith to resolve areas of disagreement. If one party is unwilling to make concessions during a divorce, it can make a collaborative approach untenable. Collaborative divorce is still an effective way to approach a divorce, even when a case ultimately ends up requiring litigation and the involvement of a family court judge.

    Q: Can Collaborative Divorce Work in Conjunction With Mediation?

    A: Collaborative divorce can be a cost-effective approach to handling a divorce. If the process reaches an impasse, mediation can help both sides reach a consensus on key areas. Both processes can work in conjunction to resolve areas of conflict. A collaborative divorce attorney can explain your options for resolving a divorce, which may include the use of mediation.

    Q: How Long Does a Collaborative Divorce Take?

    A: A collaborative divorce can lead to a finalized divorce much sooner than a contested divorce. By using a collaborative approach, a divorce could be finalized soon after the separation period has passed. During the separation period, both parties can work together to resolve areas of disagreement. Once the final divorce agreement is ready, a family court judge can finalize the divorce soon after the separation period has passed.

    Q: Is a Collaborative Divorce the Same as Mediation?

    A: Mediation relies on collaboration and can be used as part of an overall collaborative approach to resolving a divorce. In some cases, a collaborative divorce may use mediation to resolve lingering areas of disagreement. Any collaborative approach can reduce or eliminate the need for litigation that can prolong a divorce and incur significant legal fees and court costs.

    Q: When Is Collaborative Divorce Not a Good Option?

    A: Collaborative divorce may not be a good option if both parties are not willing to compromise and put in a good-faith effort to come to agreements on important matters like child custody and the division of the marital estate. Even if you have concerns about your spouse’s intentions, starting with a collaborative approach can still set the grounds for a resolution to your divorce within a shorter timeframe than beginning with a focus on litigation.

Greg Plumides

Plumides, Romano & Johnson’s
Collaborative Law Specialist
Alan R. Krusch

Alan Krusch is a Board Certified Specialist in Family Law with over 30 years of experience, dedicated to helping clients navigate the challenges of divorce and family law disputes through collaborative law. With a focus on minimizing conflict and protecting the best interests of all parties, he offers compassionate, solution-focused representation tailored to each unique family situation. Contact our office today to learn if a collaborative divorce is right for you.

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