One method of resolving divorce matters that has developed over time and has become more and more popular is called Collaborative Divorce. In Collaborative Divorce proceedings, spouses agree that they are NOT going to litigate, that they are NOT going to go to court, that they are NOT going to leave their decisions and matters that are most important in their lives to the discretion of a judge, but that they are going to decide those issues for THEMSELVES. With the help of trained professionals (attorneys, therapists, child specialists, financial specialists, divorce coaches), divorcing spouses can WORK TOGETHER to decide upon those matters most important in the lives of their families.